Even in the strongest relationships, conflicts about finances can arise. Bethany is now able to purchase her own house, but she has decided against allowing her husband to co-own it with her. This decision stems from the fact that she utilized funds from her family to cover the costs. Her husband was furious with her choice, and his words left her feeling upset. She turned to the internet for assistance.

Here is the letter from Bethany:

It has been eight years since we tied the knot. We were fortunate enough to secure a rental property due to our financial constraints preventing us from purchasing a home.

Following the passing of my dear father, I made the decision to sell his former residence along with some of his most cherished possessions. The funds acquired from the sale have enabled us to finally purchase our own home.

My husband believes that he should have equal ownership of our house as my life partner.

After declining, he responded with, “Perhaps you could consider using your funds to reimburse me for the rent I’ve covered throughout the years.” Considering your cohabitation without contributing to the financial obligations, it is only fair that you cover at least fifty percent of the expenses.
He then warned, “If you decline, perhaps we should reconsider our marriage and our future together,” which filled me with fear.
I haven’t been employed since we got married as I dedicated my time to caring for our son. For years, my husband has been the sole provider for our household, taking care of all the financial responsibilities including paying the rent.
However, it does not imply that he should automatically possess the house that was purchased solely with my money and my dad’s money.

What is your opinion on the best course of action?

Warm regards,
Bethany”